Engagement Day

26/6/2010
My bigbro engagement day

24/7/2010
Tie the knot

My family just settled down with all the engagement preparation. We brought 5 dulang hantaran. The ring, cakes, fruits, chocolate, and the tepak sirih. Even though the plan is to bring a minimum number of participant, the contingent made of 13 cars composed of 38 people. Quite a number for an engagement day. Majlis nikah this month? Lg laa ramai..

For the record, this event is done in a small capacity because it will be a "nikah gantung". Actually no term of that, the marriage this month and the Grand Ceremony will be held in January. Nikah dulu,kenduri kemudian. My brother is a doctor and now doing his housement for the last 3 month. Once he settled it, he will be posting in either Sabah or Sarawak. Everything is in hurry so he decided for "Nikah Gantung". For the grand ceremony, i'll inform later k.

Hurm, the reason I'm writing this is to express how I hate "adat". My kakak ipar is born in a family which hold strongly the "Adat Pepatih" I know the adat is where the wife will control the family or in the other words, "Queen Control".. I don't really care bout it until my family meet 1...!! It must have its pro and contra but to me, adat pepatih don't fits me well. Hopefully my brother will go well with it. InsyaAllah. The scars is there, take time to heal. We do it our style. Full with respect and honour. The road less taken already taken. We'll ride it together. hehe

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